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On Being a Head of Household

Whenever we’ve encountered different Dominants within the real-time community and we get together regarding the topic of being a Head of Household, it causes me to do a bit of inventory on my own thoughts, and those of my Beloved’s, when it comes to becoming and being...

Celebrating Our One Year Anniversary

Almost two years ago a seed was planted in hopes that it would grow into something beautiful; not in the visual sense, but in an enlightening and familial way. As the brainchild of slave Que BlueFrost and servant Kimi DeRou (from the House of Blue and House of La...

Setting up SMART Goals

For a Head of household (HOH), the establishment of a clearly defined Vision statement can be the simplest task most often forgotten. It’s easy in our numerous duties of managing both our lives and the lives of others, to overlook what could be a defining step...

House Vetting 101

Please be sure that your references are aware that they ARE your references. All on your list should know when someone has been given their information – it should not come as a surprise. Make a courtesy call and confirm that you have their consent....

The Space to Just Be

There’s been conversations lately about this big tent under which a lot of kink and kinky proclivities reside. Whether a weekend warrior or a 24/7 lifestyler or something in between, all of these varying expressions occupying the same piece of real estate sometimes...